is someone i have not met yet. hah but i can sure as hell tell you what i would like for him to be like...
first of all, if i have just met homeboy and already he's trying to refer to me as "baby, mami, sweetheart, etc." i will immediately be disappointed. you automatically fail in the first impression category, so if you know whats best for you, dont even go there with me. or with any girl for that matter...
moving along... i dont need a super smart straight A's havin dude, just someone who knows whats up with more in depth conversation. if you dont know how to make our conversation go beyond cars, weed, shoes, clothes, parties, or anything else hype related i WILL mark you down as a friend and that is where you will remain until i see more. that shits cool n all, and i dont mind hearing about your hobbies and interests, but what i really want to know is where your mind set is at. where are you trying to take your life, what moves are you planning to make, what is your take on life in general. this guy MUST be able to get on that level, and hopefully surpass mine. freal (for + real. fyi.) goals, striving for more, and ambition is def part of the perfect package...
now for the question that so many people think of the most, "do looks matter?" OBVIOUSLY im not going to get down with no quasi motto lookin foo, but i can honestly say no, they do not matter. and now you say in your head "yea right" hah im not kidding though, and i have proof. the last person i was serious with was in no way cute or attractive to me whatsoever! no lie! I would even tell him that! hahah but the thing that gets me is the personality. if you come correct and on point, its all down hill for me. i will be so beyond dunnzo over you. hah this personality usually includes ill conversation, witty jokes for days, and true to heart values. i dont need you to drive me around in your car, i have two legs and a bus pass. i dont need you to pay for everything, i had my own back before you were ever around. but what i do need is someone that knows how to keep it cool with me and just stay down. thats it.
but please dont take this as an open invitation all you blog lurkers out there hah. this is just what i think the ideal guy should be like. i dont plan on meeting him and i am in no way trying to. this kind of thing cant be forced or pressed for time, when its meant to happen it will. all i know is, when i do meet him i'll know its the real deal; this man wont try to run game and impress me, because he was already dope.
